Why am I in the middle of this Greek tragedy involving myself and a Korean guy? Stop flooding the Korean’s inbox with your 20-page sob story!If you want some genuine help, go read this instead. Valentines Day (Feb 14th) – In Korea, Valentines day in Korea is a day that women give to the men.
(For example, Kwon Sang-Wu in the picture.) Korean guys are now singled out as a category, and they seem to feature in amorous fantasies of many non-Korean women. It’s relatively uncommon, but hey, interracial dating is always relatively uncommon. (She’s a keeper.)The Korean tangentially covered this as well. As a rule, a traditional Korean woman carried a small silver knife. It’s interesting to watch American films emphasizing the 3-date-rule, because really? Of course, this is generalization and there are variations, but the main point is that although the ideology of sex is changing rapidly, mostly due to media, there’s still a stigma on girls having sex before marriage. The “proper” women must remain chaste, and the requirements of being chaste are utterly crazy. This is worse with Korean women, but men are definitely affected by this as well.There is no such thing as “ultra super special Korean guy-to-girl gift”, except possibly on certain days. If it has an uber secret hidden message, he would probably tell you.According to Gustavo Arellano, the most common question for the Mexican is “Why do Mexicans swim with their clothes on?” Well, for the Korean, the most common question is this: “[Who/what/when/why/how] do Korean guys [like/dislike/act/feel] [in/about/with/for] girls?If you are considering dating/marrying a Korean man, look out for the following: 1. That means that they despise people whose skins are darker than them. Even if your guy is not racist, his parents, relatives, and friends are going to be racist. Korean men who come to Southeast Asia through a marriage broker do so because NO KOREAN WOMAN WOULD MARRY HIM. Of course, some men are just unlucky -- Korean women tend not to marry divorced men or men living in rural areas as farmers.That makes a long-term relationship or marriage extremely difficult. The same principle applies everywhere: Korean men are exactly the same as all men. But many men are your classic, stuck-in-the-1960s type of Koreans whose hobbies include beating their wives. Regardless of going through a broker or not, watch out for older Korean men (in 30s~40s as opposed to in early 20s), for the simple reason that older Korean men are more likely to be racist, manipulative, and disrespectful to women.The Korean will say this one more time: Korean men are men before they are Korean.Whatever relationship problem you are having, 99 percent of it has to do with the fact that he is a man, and maybe 1 percent of it has to do with the fact that he is Korean.