They want you to immediately get out of the site and into Skype, text, and email. I do the right thing and say "No" to requests rather than let them lapse after the 3 day period and they are constantly putting me under review..last one lasting 24 hours! I have used quite a few dating sites, and I found this is the best so far, even better than all the other paid sites i've used.They tell you that it's fate or even GOD that has brought us together and then all sorts of fantastic stories... Just a normal female looking for someone real and genuine and most importantly someone that I like: why would i just accept some jerk who is on every dating site posing under different guises ??? The women on there so stuck and arrogant, there are women who are so far under average in looks and they still don't bother accepting or wanting to talk. I like the design of the site, the layout is so unique to the others, more easy and continent to use than most of the other dating site...becasue Oasis is not a bad dating site so if you weren't lucky using it I think you need to clarify what you were expecting.But to me it is hard to say what this dating site is all about.I get dozens of messages a day and obviously can't contact every one of them immediately and to log on and read the abuse well...loser, thanks for removing yourself from any chance of contact!!Seriously it can be quite frightening and obviously that says ALOT for ALOT of men on this site.this one told me he was sending me a box of cash from the Middle East. Tell you what, I've used match, e- harmony, pof, okcupid, connect single... you got to choose who you want to talk and contact to, and don't need to read and reply loads of useless emails. and what's more, it's free, completely free.I think all the sites have all kinds of scammers and bad ones, but also has decent people, it's all up to you to filter the bad ones out, just use conmen sense.
which clearly clarifies by what happened with me as instead of investigating the matter ,the best part is my profile went under review instead of those culprit's and doesnt look like owner of this site is taking any efforts of looking at the chats who is doing what.
You cant trust such sites which is full of unsafe men and sleaze and they cant even hold a decent conversation and make inappropriate advances.
To all women get off that site and run away as far as you can.
Then there are Nigerian scammers, again they things like " I'm from USA my mum is in Nigeria I came to visit her for the past 11 months, I love it here" that explains the Ip, and Incase future details are exchanged and they need cash as they wud often get jn trouble but they wud be sure to pay u back when back I'm USA , they add the story about Nigeria early on on, I can't believe that the amount of $#*! On the other hand it's an International site , how wud admin of oasis know how to filter them out, generally people hate paying for dating site This site is FULL of scammers.
They pounced on me time after time; I almost believed one of them, he was so good!