Old guys aren't my thing, but every time I ask my 30-something boyfriend to talk seriously about our future or shuffle through his apartment that has empty pizza boxes stacked on the dining room table, I can see the advantages of having had someone else remove the training wheels. It's exhausting."Megan can actually date her attraction to silver foxes back to childhood and a certain ex-President from the late 1980s/early 1990s: "I think this is all George H. In middle school we had an assignment to write a letter to a famous person. The rest of my sixth grade class felt this way about Donnie Wahlberg.
Megan dates older men because, as she says, they are men."It's not for everyone but I prefer to be with a man that has already conquered his world and wants to enjoy the rest of his life," she told me. Donnie seemed like a loose cannon, much too unpredictable.
In later years, the gender gap becomes even wider as men tend to die earlier than women..
The other factor that many men forget about is that many of the guys they used to compete with, are now out of the game. Some have just given up on relationships after being burned a couple of times. Finally the biggest factor that an older man has in his favor is that he can now date easily 20 years below him and few people think there is anything wrong with it.
For many men, they find themselves married, with children, a job and the game is over.
But for other men, those who have either not been married by their 40s or are facing a post divorce life in their 40s, there’s a lot of good news that they need to know about.
If they want you they're not going to make you question it.
He's spending more time and attention on your relationship.5. Most guys in their thirties think they're doing YOU a favor by holding your hand and saying that you look beautiful.
A man in his sixties will insist on holding your hand and tell you several times over how lucky he feels to be with you.
This is when I get to share with them the good news. To begin with, there are more women than men in society.
It’s about a 60/40 split, and the women live longer than the men.