While he’s obviously enjoying your company, he probably just can’t get his nerve up to ask you out romantically.
Instead, you do the asking and see how he handles your spunk.
Attacking or attempting to coerce a guy into discussing his emotions will most likely only cause him to retreat further into solitude.
Feel free to share your own emotions without expectations of consistent reciprocation, and make it clear that you’re always there for him when he’s ready to talk. If he’s a guy worth dating, he’ll open up to you on his own with just a little support and patience from the girl he loves. Ethan Ethan Fixell is a writer and comedian from New York City best known as one half of comic “dating coach” duo Dave and Ethan. For more on Ethan, visit Ethan Fixell.com…or call his mom, Robin. Do you find yourself wondering, “What is he thinking? And if you have a question for Ethan, email him at [email protected]!
If he tries to clarify the details and what the date may insinuate, perhaps he is just buddy material.
But if he energetically accepts with no questions asked, surely he is sighing with relief behind the broad grin. His body language is perhaps saying the things he cannot articulate.
2) He’s Your Sidekick Because you’re already friends, you hang out, go on errands, laugh together at funny commercials and share inside jokes.
The problem is that he doesn’t know how to take it to the next level.
He’s interested and wants to learn about what makes you happy.
3) His Body Language Speaks for Itself With a smooth hand touch, a door courteously opened with his hand on your lower back, dramatic eye contact and a lingering hug, he is telling you that he likes you without saying a word. In fairness, he may just be a gentleman, but these little clues can also indicate an affection for his leading lady – YOU!
Why not take the wheel and put your romantic relationship in gear?
If you are into a shy guy, take note that you have to ask him out (unless you feel like waiting around while he musters his courage).
So why not put your outgoing personality to good use? Bashful will be eternally grateful that you made the first move.