But the way my attention span is set up I don't think I can commit to it for very long.If I am dating a woman and she tells me upfront that she is dating other men besides me, I would not take her seriously. I might continue to have sex with her, but it probably won’t go much further than that.Women can try to make the argument that men date multiple women all the time, but men only do this when we are out to ‘play’ - we don’t do this when we are looking for ‘the one’.
If a woman is dating more than one man at a time, she is not giving enough time or effort to finding out if she is truly compatible with any of them.
I have been back on the dating scene for about two years now.
I think its ok for a woman to date multiple men at the same time, and I sometimes do.
I didn’t really understand what he meant back then, but that saying is crystal clear to me now. No matter how much we don’t like it and don’t want to admit it, we as women are held to a higher standard than men.
We are expected to be pure and virginal, yet perform like a porn star for them in the bedroom. However, if both parties have not agreed to be exclusive, then neither party should expect exclusivity from the other.