Or maybe he’s had some personal or family health issues that he hasn't felt comfortable discussing yet.
Finding out now will help to relieve your anxiety and may even wind up bringing the two of you closer than ever.
If you take this route, be prepared and open to hear the truth.
He may say that he’s having second thoughts about the relationship. If the answer is any of these, just know that knowing the truth earlier is always better, and it will save you a lot of anxiety and even more heartbreak down the road. This may be because he’s not in touch with his feelings or aware of his own changes in behavior, or it may be that he’s now being his true self and he’s just not capable of giving you more than you’re getting from him right now.
Three days after I had our daughter, he was on two of his ex girlfriends’ Facebook pages! He thinks I overreact but I don’t because it hurts me! Hides his phone whenever someone calls and when I ask who it is, he says “don’t worry about it, you’re too nosy!
I couldn’t trust him around our daughter because his addiction as calls it, was so bad! ”He has been really distant lately, coming home from work and getting directly in the shower.
I’d feel like I had to do something – anything - quickly to turn it around Whatever he clearly wasn’t seeing, I was going to show him. It was, of course, the worst thing I could have done in this situation.
So I laid in bed for about an hour acting like I was asleep. I give him a minute and roll over and ask him what he’s doing.
And unfortunately, this type of reaction is all too common. Why do we hang in there, remaining silent on what we’re observing, while we’re pretzeling ourselves around to be whatever we think we need to be to get him (and the relationship) back the way it was?
Because when he starts pulling away from us, it brings out every abandonment issue we’ve ever had, and leaves us desperately trying to turn things around by pulling out all the stops and becoming everything we think he wants us to be. And the worst part is, in reality, it only has the opposite effect – it brings the relationship crashing down even faster than before.
Apparently, Miz Markle's connection to the royal family comes via the ancestors of her father, cinematographer Thomas Markle.
While this update is awkz, we doubt it'll hinder the expected upcoming engagement.