These are women who were invested enough to willingly give you their number.Every time you don’t follow up on a number, you’re throwing away your best shots for romance.
You spend hours with the lady, and you may even like it, but does she like you back? This is a clear indicator that you are just wasting your time on the girl. If money is not the issue, then go ahead and wait till 3 date. And you want to know she is into you, and she plans on dating you in the future. It is not even so much about the sensual or sexual pleasure. See, the first kiss lets you get more “revelations” about the girl than the long talk does.
New rule: “Whenever I get a girl’s number, I will message her within 24 hours.” Insecure guys feel the need to prove their worth to women. By being cold over text, women believe you’re not really interested.
So they overcompensate and protect themselves by pretending to be unavailable. Then they respond accordingly by acting distant to protect themselves, too. So when you finally invite her to do something, she doesn’t give you a concrete answer.
When you kiss, you recognize that amazing chemistry that happens between a man and a woman. How can you be sure she is the one you want to date and invest your time and money in unless you kiss on the 2nd date? Even if she does not spend the money on you, she definitely does not want to waste her time on someone who is not really into her.
You get your first date and then you call back in few days and take her out on the second date.