Then I will, inevitably, get an email from someone saying, “I’m not getting over it.
I will never get over this.” I want to address the “I’m not getting over this, I want to die.” feeling. Some are quite rudimentary and you would think a smart person like me would know them, but I didn’t.
To join be sure to answer the questions (why you want membership and you agree to the Group Guidelines [the pinned post]). Many of my clients have been involved with pathological narcissists and it is difficult to treat them until they understand, truly understand, what pathological narcissism is.
Marblehead in MA is used often by natives as a metaphor for a thick skull…and “Dawn breaks over Marblehead” is a Massachusetts expression which means “Duh.
I finally get it.” I think it’s a terrific expression to define a defining moment, an epiphany so to speak, and when I lived there I heard it used it all the time.
Valentine’s is a silly little holiday and for its importance to rise to the level of stress-inducer means there are more problems in the relationship than just Valentines Day.
A healthy couple is comprised of two people who know how to pick their battles and focus on the important things and Valentine’s Day is not one of those things.