I used to starve myself before dates so I’d look skinny, but then I’d be so hungry and jittery, I couldn’t function properly. Once my date got there, she found me at the table, calm cool and collected. She did not disappoint: “A way to banish nerves is to realize that they WANT you to be the right person for the job — it solves their problem just as much as yours!
B) Show up early at your date spot, get a table, and have a drink by yourself. ” Apply that to dating and it’ll change your whole perspective.
Have you been feeling like you’ve somehow *lost* your mojo? I have been crafting, backspacing then re-crafting the same f*cking message over and over again to one of my tinder matches.
), and I’m not realistically available for a date for two weeks. Though I am an anxious babe, I still have a HUGE dating success rate, which is why you should listen to me, dear lez. And I’ll give you a hint: It doesn’t have to be the perfectly written witty, life-changing opener. Meeting girls is honestly so much easier than you think. Everyone has the same end goal, basically: we are all looking to get laid.
She identifies as a dyke princess/Jenny Schecter fan-girl and lives on Long Island to be closer to her lash and spray tan technicians.
of going on a date sends me into an anxious spiral. Don’t be the girl frantically prepping for sex in the bar bathroom.
The things that scare me are the very things that feed me.
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